Menswear Inspired

IMG_3489 IMG_3493IMG_3491 IMG_3496 IMG_3497IMG_3505 IMG_3499 You guys know I’m all about how an outfit makes you feel. This outfit made me feel amazing. There’s something about the boxy silhouette, stripes, boots, hair pulled back, and overall simplicity that made me feel so menswear-y. (I’m so good with words, aren’t I?) This clean cut look is a definite break from the norm but I loved every second of it. I’m not an outfit repeater but this one is a total exception. I find it satisfying when I style a timeless outfit. Outfits come and go, my passion towards certain trends fade, but once in a while I stumble across a exceptional outfit and that’s such a great feeling. It may be simple but sometimes that’s all a girl really needs. My obsession over boyfriend shaped blazers has gotten a little bit out of hand. I really can’t stop myself from buying one in every single color. They are so much fun and they can really make any ensemble more masculine… but in a tasteful kind of way of course.

That’s all for now folks…talk to you soon.

Xoxo,

Karissa

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Little Blue Dress

IMG_4098 IMG_4105 IMG_4110 IMG_4114IMG_4099Forget the little black dress. Let’s switch things up just a little bit. This shift silhouette is all the rage right now. I have a bunch in my closet for those days when I don’t feel like putting in much effort and when I want my outfit to do all the talking. The boiled wool material makes the outfit a little more cozier and winter appropriate. This little ensemble is acceptable for work functions, girls night, and even date night. I went for a more “everyday” look (everyday for me) by pairing it with a striped turtleneck and statement fox printed tights. Don’t be the girl in the little back dress. Be the one that takes it to a different level with a pretty cobalt blue/green dress. It’s okay to be the oddball sometimes. I prefer it actually. ODDBALLS UNITE!

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Xoxo,

Karissa

Dress | Turtleneck | Tights | Boots

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A Fresh Start

IMG_3022 IMG_3032 IMG_3039 IMG_3041 IMG_3043 IMG_3047 IMG_3049IMG_3029I’m loving this fresh new start, aren’t you? Not only did 2015 just begin…but I recently moved into a new apartment. The change of scenery has really allowed my brain into thinking clearly and calmly. I haven’t been in my new place for a week and I’ve already made so many memories in it. I hope this feeling lasts forever. I hope I wake up every day with something to do, with a full heart, without anxiety, and with the energy to make my dreams come true. If you don’t follow me on social media, you probably don’t know that I started a YouTube channel. I could not be more excited and more terrified. Like my blog, it’s another creative outlet and chance to connect with other people across the country. I’ve made so many blogger friends and I cannot wait to meet more people and really connect through my YouTube channel. I’m really not sure what my channel will consist of. Vlogs (video diaries) here and there and maybe some fashion videos. Bare with me, because it will be a rocky start but I could not be more thankful for the people that have believed in me so far. You’re encouraging comments make me feel like I have purpose. Thank you.

Here’s another feminine look. My favorite kind of look if you haven’t noticed. I surprise myself everyday on how much of a girl I am. Being around boys my entire life makes me really appreciate lipstick, tulle skirts and curly hair. I can’t wait to share my love for girly things with my daughter some day but with my luck, I’ll continue to be surrounded by dudes. Another thing that I appreciate is how my mama raised me to dress. Her style is feminine, comfortable, and conservative. I have to admit that I’m just like her in that way. I like to make bolder choices when it comes to my wardrobe but I will always remain very feminine and conservative. Anthropologie is my one stop shop for all of those things. I can always count on Anthro to make me feel beautiful.

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Xoxo,

Karissa

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2015…You’re gonna be a good one.

IMG_2828IMG_2818IMG_2847 IMG_2820 IMG_2821 IMG_2845 IMG_2825 IMG_2813 IMG_2795Happy New Year my lovely friends. I hope your year is full of happiness, growth, and love. I hope each and every one of you tries new things and conquers something on your check list. Let’s all continue to love more and smile more. We could all use it don’t you think? This world needs a little cup of tea. Tea is always soothing. If you’ve been wanting to start a blog…DO IT NOW. Don’t think too hard about the details, just type from the heart and you will never regret it. This blog has been the best thing to happen to me. Please continue to share my blog/Instagram/Twitter/ Facebook accounts with your friends. The more to my blog family the better.

One thing that 2014 taught me is that it’s okay to not be in control. I’ve tried to manage all aspects of my life and when something didn’t go as planned…I would panic and blame myself.  I’m not the writer of my story. I have to breathe a little more and let things fall into place sometimes. There’s no rush. If something is meant to be, it will be. Every year I get stronger and weaker all at the same time. It’s part of life. I’m not completely happy with where I’m at in life, I have a lot to work on but I’m not making false promises to myself this year. No resolutions. I will work hard on my downfalls but I’m done punishing myself. I deserve to love me, right? Everyday is a struggle to do that but I will love who I am one day. 2015 is another year of recovery but also a year for self acceptance. More baths. More hot cocoa. More therapy. More friends. More wine. More walks. More sleep.

2015…You’re gonna be a good one.

Xoxo,

Karissa

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We’ve made a decision…

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Two separate keys. Two separate apartments. One happy girl. One happy boy. One healthy relationship. We decided that we will continue to live apart until the time is right.  I would never want to corrupt my pure and honest relationship with my best friend with regret or guilt.  I would never want to wake up every single day regretting the decision of moving in without getting married first. Both of my older brothers made the decision to move in with their girlfriends at a very young age. You can say all you want that moving in together doesn’t change the relationship at all, only if you let it… but I watched their relationships fall apart. I watched them turn into different men because of it and now their kids are left with the heart break. I DO NOT WANT THAT FOR MYSELF. Wyatt and I have been through too much together. We’ve conquered every challenge that we’ve been given. I would never want to lose all that hard work all because we chose to be selfish and sleep in the same bed every night and have lower rent. I guess I got lost in the process. I’m surrounded by people who made the other choice and I got too confused. I pushed my little girl dreams to the side and focused on how much easier it would have been to just move in together. I guess I needed to hear the words from someone else. Reading all of your individual stories really put my story into perspective. Thank you for sharing. All of you know me so well… A little too well. I cried and cried reading your posts, emails and texts because I realized that I knew the answer this whole time. I lost my way for a split second there. I’ve always known what was right for Wyatt and I, but I got caught up in the peer pressure of others. I cannot thank you all enough for the positive yet honest feedback from yesterday’s post. Some of you really, truly blew me away. I’m so happy that I shared this little piece of information with all of you because even though it may be a small decision to some, it really really helped me make what I think is the RIGHT decision for Wyatt and I at this moment in time. To be honest, Wyatt is bummed. He was really excited to move in together but he understands and is willing to wait for me. What a guy huh? I picked a good one. I feel a little saddened about the money aspect of it all. My mom and dad are helping me out at the moment. It really bothers me that I can’t afford to pay my own rent right now. I don’t want to put that burden on them. But I think they’re happy with my decision. All I want is for them to be proud of me. I have to be a role model for myself and for my nieces. I’ll tell them someday when they’re all grown up and in love that they’re uncle and I waited. It’s actually possible people.

Thank you all again for the push in the right direction. I really appreciate it. I know I’m never alone and that’s the best gift my blog has given me. Love you all so much.

One more thing….

Hey mom. You were right.

MOMMA KNOWS BEST!

Xoxo,

Karissa

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